Thursday, February 23, 2012

Three weeks old... Already?!

Time is going by way too fast! Grayson is already THREE WEEKS OLD! I now understand parents lamenting the growth rates of their getting-too-big children. I'm trying hard to enjoy the weeks I have home with him; though, I can't help but remember my return to work is just a few short weeks away... and I'm pretty sure I don't want it to ever come.

Anyway, we're surviving and thriving! There have been a few rough nights this week, but I'm starting to figure out what soothes him quickly - food. Kid wants to eat all night long, it seems, which makes for some long nights for his mama. There are only about three things that really get him fussing: disturbances to his coziness - like unsnapping his onesies to change his diapers, cold wet wipes, and hunger. I say if that's all that upsets him, we're getting off pretty easy so far! (Knock on wood...)

As a side note, Grayson's due date was yesterday! How funny to think that we weren't even supposed to have him here until then and instead we feel like we're getting the hang of things. Glad we didn't have to wait those last three weeks!

A few pics of the past couple of weeks...

Snuggled in his blankie:

Blowing milk bubbles:

Happy and full:

Big bright eyes!

Having a snooze:

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Our first week...

We've been home about a week and a half now, and it seems to be going pretty well! Night feedings are the greatest challenge, and I'm having a hard time getting myself to take naps during the day. After eight weeks on bed rest, there's just so much I want to do around the house! But by the afternoon, I'm so tired I want to cry. I'm working on a balance there.

Brant went back to work on Monday, so it's just been Grayson and me at home. We have some nice family cuddles together before he leaves in the morning, which is probably my favorite time of the day!

Gray all snuggled in my robe between B & me:

On Tuesday, we had our first outing without Daddy to go to the doctor, and it was a bit of a challenge for me to wrangle all the baby gear + baby, especially after a distressing morning of multiple diaper and outfit casualties. We were definitely late for our appointment. Whoops! We'll get that down sometime.

Our dogs are very intrigued by Grayson, maybe to a fault. Rosie wants to guard him, so she barks at every little sound - including ones that I make. Luckily, Gray is unfazed by the noise. She also gets mad at us when he whimpers or cries as though we're doing something mean to him by changing his diaper. Sam just wants to smell him and lick him (not allowed), but mostly isn't all that interested unless there's feeding or diapering action taking place. Overall, they're pretty sweet about the baby, and I think they know he'll be a good playmate when he gets bigger.

Rosie checking out the kid:

On a final first-week note, we've been supplementing each feeding with a little formula since his second day of life per the NICU doctor's orders, and after received the all-clear to eliminate it now that he's showing good weight gain and has a healthy outlook, he is now formula free! I consider this a personal accomplishment on behalf of my body doing what it's supposed to do, especially after it malfunctioned at keeping the kid in for 40 weeks. Woot!

A few first-week photos:
First sponge bath...



'Thank you' note photo shoot...

Showing off his neck muscles...

Having a nap...


(I'd like to point out that it took me three days from the time I started writing this post to the time I finished it. New mother, here...)

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Our whole family is home!

We were discharged from the hospital on Monday night after the doctors determined that Grayson was healthy enough to come home, and are we ever relieved to be here! It's been a great few days adjusting. Brant and I are both very tired getting used to the new sleep routine, but we're getting a system down. We were discussing yesterday how natural it feels to have him home and be his parents... It's really fun, and I'm already lamenting how quickly the time is passing. Today he is one week old (already)!

Grayson has been back to the doctor a couple of times to make sure he keeps being a healthy boy after the hospital, and he's gaining weight well and eating well, and the jaundice seems to be going away quite nicely! Things are looking good.

The Babe:

Our first family photo:

The final belly shot:

Monday, February 6, 2012

Grayson is born!

Grayson Ray Bridges was born Thursday morning, 2/2/12, at 5:42 am, weighing in at 6 lb, 9 oz, 20 inches long. Bed rest got him to 37 weeks, 1 day!


Labor was really fast and intense! I had no signs of labor on Wednesday, went to bed as normal, and awoke with a start when my water broke at 1:04 am. I hopped into a quick shower while Brant rounded up our bags, and by the time we got to the hospital at 2 am, contractions were about 1 min apart and very painful. I immediately asked for the epidural, but the nurse checked me and said I was already completely dilated so not eligible for an epi. I got one dose of IV pain meds, which worked not at all, but we had to make it work! On the next contraction, I was pushing. I pushed for 2.5 hours, and then he was born! Total labor time was about 4.5 hours. It was a truly amazing experience...completely surreal. When they placed him on my chest, a nurse came in, opened the blinds in the birth room, and said, "it's a beautiful sunrise!" there we were with our minutes-old baby, watching the single most beautiful sunrise I've ever seen in my entire life.

The first day was so wonderful - he latched on pretty well, and we just cuddled and loved on him all day. Then it got complicated. They discovered that I was indeed positive for a common bacteria called Strep B. It would have been treated simply with antibiotics in my IV during labor, but it takes four hours to be effective, and my labor had been so short there was no time for the antibiotic. They tested Grayson's blood, and it showed that he was fighting an infection of some sort by the fact that his white blood cell count was elevated and continued to elevate over a 12-hour period. If he had contracted the Strep B from me, then it could turn into a very serious illness, so they decided to take preventative measures to head off any problems. He was immediately taken (around midnight) to NICU at a neighboring hospital, as the one I delivered in didn't have a NICU, and they started IV antibiotics. We had to be separated that night, which was very hard for me but necessary for his health. I was discharged the next morning to go be with him. We spent the day in NICU, and determined that he was healthy aside from the need for antibiotics, so because I'm breast feeding, they gave us a family room in pediatrics for Brant and me to sleep and care for him here at the hospital. They discontinued his IV fluids and antibiotics Sunday morning, and we were going to be discharged, but then they discovered he has high levels of bilirubin, meaning he's jaundice, so we were kept one more night doing a UV bed treatment. They tested his blood this morning, and his levels haven't come down enough to go home just yet, but they'll test again this afternoon. We're hopeful the light bed works enough to get us home tonight, but it may still be tomorrow. He's a trouper, and I'll be glad to get him home where he won't have any wires hooked up, and he can sleep in peace without being tested and poked. It's so incredibly hard to see all of this happening to my tiny perfect son, but I know he's getting great care and will be just fine very soon.

On a happier note, Grayson looks a whole lot like his daddy! Brant is the sweetest daddy - completely involved in the whole eating, burping, diapering process, and helping me get sleep when I can. He adores his boy, and his gentleness and doting love is the most amazing thing...my two men are magnificent! I'm a very lucky lady. My heart is full and completely content.


More photos to come...

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

37 Weeks! (/happy dance)

We made it! We made it! My bed rest is officially over, and Baby Boy is now all the way to term! This means that he is unlikely to need any NICU time, and he should have no trouble with his reflexes, most importantly breathing and feeding reflexes. Woo-hoo! We'll have a February baby after all.

And just in the nick of time, I finished his blanket on Monday night!

I'm going to stay on bed rest activity level for the next couple of days, even if I don't have to, because I don't want to send myself into labor before the baby shower on Saturday. After that, though, I'll very happily resume my normal life!